You ever been in an audience and the speaker in the front of the room says to everyone, "Are any of you shy?" And then he/she told the people who were shy to raise their hands? And you considering yourself to be a little shy, really shy or even painfully shy raised your hand? Announcing to everyone else in the room that you were shy? So everyone else in the room would turn and look at you with your hand raise...because you believed you were a shy person?
I never raise my hand.
Because I'm shy.